Love, Sex and Relationships
Love, sex and relationships! We all want to be loved, appreciated and have pleasure and fulfilment in our lives. God gave us all the capacity to love and be loved, to have special friendships with others. He also gave us a sexual nature, and sexual desires. This was not just so that we would keep the human race going, but also because God wanted us to enjoy oneness with a life partner. This unity is actually a very powerful symbol of the way God wants it to be between us and Jesus Christ. That is what the Bible teaches!Sex is a gift from God. It is not evil. But it is a powerful gift, and it can be abused or perverted.
Sex is like fire. In your fireplace it can keep your house warm. But if fire gets out of control it can burn your house down. It can even kill you. Sex is like that. Lots of people have now died of sexually transmitted diseases. Modern man may mock, but the best way to avoid diseases like AIDS, syphillus and others is to limit your sex life to just one lifelong partner who has not gotten infected with these diseases through promiscuity. And until you find that person, abstinence won't kill you. In fact, it will release a lot of creative energy which you can apply to achieving in many areas of life.
It seems a shame that people suffer so much and some die because of bad decisions with regard to their sex lives.
Here's a little illustrated comic on that theme. Its called That Crazy Guy!
My wife Marilena has written something as advice to girls who would like to find the right partner! As soon as it is ready we will upload it to the site. Write her if you would like to talk about it.
If you are married you can find good books in most Christian bookshops about how to enjoy your marriage relationship more and how to enrich it.
If you are single, wanting to be married, remember this: it is better to be that way than to be married, wanting to be single!
Until you get married, learn to make friends, get to know people of both sexes - but be strong enough to keep sexual activity right out of your relationships until you have found your marriage partner, and the date is set! Even then, keep your clothes on with each other if you want to fully enjoy your marriage later.
Abstinence is not necessarily easy psychologically, but it does have its rewards. If you concentrate on being the kind of person worth being married to, then God will eventually bring you the right partner. I waited until I was 28 before I got married, and God has given me a wonderful wife. The years before that I was able to direct my energy into serving God, which was itself very fulfilling.
To be honest with you though, the power of the Holy Spirit available to a Christian is more powerful than sex. I know this from experience. Some may never believe or understand that - but it doesn't change the facts. I mean, the Holy Spirit IS God. He is more powerful than anything He created, including sex. God told us to be filled with the Holy Spirit. The lack of this sometimes leads people to search for fulfilment in sexual activity outside of God's guidelines. This kind of search will prove to be frustrating and ultimately destructive. I want to write now a little on Sexual Sin
Homosexuality
Fornication is when two unmarried people have a sexual relationship. Pre-marital sex is a form of fornication. The Bible says that fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Yet there is hope for those who turn from their sin.
Fornication is a rip-off for several reasons
If the relationship breaks up (and it usually does) someone is going to be badly hurt.
Later, when you marry your life partner, you will have flashbacks to the old relationship/s which will rob you of some of the joy of marriage, leaving you unsatisfied.
You can get sexually transmitted diseases through fornication. You might even die.
There will be a stronger barrier between you and God which you will find it difficult to overcome. A lot of people who claim to have "intellectual problems" with the gospel actually have a problem with sexual immorality.
Adultery
Adultery mean having a sexual relationship with somebody you are not married to, when either that person, you yourself or both of you are are married to someone else. Adultery is tirelessly promoted in the world's media. It is glamorised and exalted and lifted up. It is made to look so exciting, adventurous and fulfilling. What they generally don't show you is the heartache it causes. In real life, practising adultery will bring a curse on you and generally it will cost you financially. You may have to suffer struggles with a guilty conscience for a long time afterwards, if you commit adultery. God said, "You shall not commit adultery" because He made us, loves us and knows what is best for us. Rebelling against God always costs dearly - but in this matter this price is very high.Why is God Against Adultery?
To commit adultery is not a smart move, no matter how bad the marriage is that you profane through the adulterous relationship. Here are some reasons why God is against adultery:1. It hurts the one who was betrayed by adultery.
If you love someone and trust them, and then find out that they have been sexually unfaithful to you, it is emotionally devastating to say the least. God wants to protect people from this - therefore he forbids adultery.2. To allow it would make every marriage insecure
Women in general pay the greater price in a relationship. Women are usually emotionally more sensitive than men and often have a greater need for love and security. To the extent that adultery and divorce are accepted in society - to that extent women will be exploited and robbed of the security and true love they need. Men also suffer when marriages break down. If faithfulness in marriage was not important, then no marriage would be safe. There are always going to be times when the thought comes that things could be better with someone else. If there was no safeguard against this, families would break down, and so would the moral fabric of society. Perhaps you yourself have already been a victim of some of this.3. It hurts the children
Children love to see that their parents love each other. They are hurt when they can't see that - when they hear them fighting or saying bad things to each other. When marriages break up through adultery the children are emotionally scarred, and may be left without one of their parents4. It is expensive
The people who really make money out of adultery are divorce lawyers. The divorce courts eat up the financial resources of those whose marriages fail due to adultery. Often houses must be sold below the market price to make quick settlements. This is one of the least of the reasons why adultery is bad but it does count for something. After all, we spend a lot of our time earning money. Why throw it away? It seems to just be the way it is that whoever you sleep with gets your money. Prostitutes know that. A whole industry has grown up around that fact.
5. It Means Breaking Important Promises
How can a person commit adultery without also being a liar and a covenant breaker? Can we trust such people who betray the ones that are closest to them?6. It Gives the Devil an Opportunity to Steal from Us
You may not believe that the devil exists, but I'm telling you, you will see the results of his influence if you commit adultery. He then has a legal right to put a curse on you. Evil spirits will steal your peace, joy - possibly even your health and life.What Can Be Done for Those Already Burned by the Fire of Sexual Sin?
The good news of Jesus Christ means that anyone caught in sexual sin can experience forgiveness and restoration. It may or may not be possible for relationships to be restored the way God meant them to be, but two relationships can be restored:(1) Your relationship with God, and
(2) Your relationship with yourself.
Jesus, because He paid for the guilt of your sin, can offer you forgiveness if you turn from it. He gives you the power to turn from it if you want to know the new life he can give you. Jesus is real and has forgiven hundreds of thousands of adulterers down through the ages. To receive his forgiveness, you yourself must also forgive. Unless you forgive others who have hurt you, God will not forgive you. Therefore please forgive others, and ask God for forgiveness.Homosexuality
I have no doubt that many talented, cultured people have become homosexuals at some stage in their lives. Homosexuals are valuable people too! But none of this make homosexuality right.
No matter what people say, the God of the Bible is against homosexual behavior. Homosexuals may shake their fist at God and try to convince everyone, including themselves, that they were born that way, but it is a lie. It may be a politically correct lie, but it is still a lie.
People are recruited into the homosexual movement. They are not born that way. Often boys who did not grow up with a father are vulnerable to seeking male love through homosexuality.
There is the interesting account of an intelligent young man who turned from homosexuality to Christ in the book, Miracles Still Happen found on this site. Please check it out.
Here is a comic (Doom Town) which contains a compassionate plea to homosexuals to turn before it is too late.
I am familiar with so-called Biblical defenses of homosexuality and I think they hold no water. A Christian homosexual is a contradiction in terms! Practising homosexuals can become Christians, and it can even happen the other way, but no one is both.
A Brief Summary against so-called Biblical Arguments Permitting Homosexuality
The sin of Sodom was not just selfishness, pride, inhospitality or lack of compassion - though all these sins were certainly present (Ezekiel 16:49). The sin of Sodom was homosexuality. "as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities around them in a similar manner to these, having given themselves over to sexual immorality and gone after strange flesh, are set forth as an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire." (Jude 7).
The men of Sodom wanted to know the angels sexually. Lot tried to appease them by offering his own virgin daughters, who had never known a man (Genesis 19:8). The meaning of "know" here in this passage is obviously sexual.
Homosexuality is condemned not only in the law of Moses, but also in the New Testament. The fact that it is called an "abomination" in in the Old Testament should give us a clue as to how God feels about it. Paul wrote these words, inspired by the Holy Spirit.
"For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even the women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of the error which was due." (Romans 1:26-27)
Paul says nothing here about homosexuality being wrong because of its association with temple idolatry, and everything about its being shameful, vile and against nature. Just as adultery is wrong with or without temple idolatry, so is homosexuality.
Homosexuality is against essential nature, not merely against "sociological nature". We were not designed to have sex with the same sex. Isn't that obvious?
When 1 Corinthians 6:19 speaks of "homosexual offenders" (NIV) it means the offense of homosexuality. It is not talking about homosexuals who happened to be offensive in some unspecified way, but about people whose offense was homosexual practices. The book of Jude and 2 Peter are very clear.
There is no one so blind as those who don't want to see. God is not asking your permission to tell you what is right or wrong. He is not going to have a vote about it. One day you will die. Will you be ready to face the One who gave you a way out of the very things that were destroying you? Its not too late to turn to God.
It is clear that homosexuals, who have gained a major influence in today's secular media, are on a militant campaign to change the way society sees their behaviour. Most homosexuals are open mockers of God and Christian values. But God will not allow Himself to be mocked forever. A loving Savior will one day become a severe judge - not just against homosexuals, but against every other kind of unrepentant sinner - be they "Christian" or not.
Sexual Immorality - teaching by Marlies Zechner
From Miracles Still Happen - book 2
Proverbs 30:18
There are four things that are too mysterious for me to understand: 19/ an eagle flying in the sky, a snake moving on a rock, a ship finding its way over the sea and a man and a woman falling in love.
1 Corinthians 134/ Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; 5/ love is not ill mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; 6/ love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. 7/ Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail. 8/ Love is eternal.
The above Bible verses should be the basis of a relationship, not sexual intercourse.
What is sexual immorality?
- The same applies to sex between the same gender.
- A person who is married and has an affair with another person is considered to have committed adultery.
- Sex between a man and a woman outside of marriage is fornication.
- Forbidden sexual practices are listed in Leviticus chapter 18 of the Bible.
Sexual immorality through the ages
God intended sex to be a beautiful experience between a husband and his wife yet very quickly the devil turned it into something ugly. In Genesis 6:1-4 we read how "heavenly beings" were taking beautiful young women who they had children by. Clearly the Bible says their offspring were, "of human women and spiritual beings". Now, I believe these spiritual beings were not God's angels, but evil spirits. The Bible tells us that the people became so bad that God destroyed them through the great flood. So right from the beginning of time, evil spirits of lust have ruled people. Interestingly enough the film, "Rosemarie's Baby" is about a woman having a child by the devil. All the scriptwriter of the film had to do was put modern characters into an age-old story. Is it any wonder that sexual acts are a major part of Satanism?The Bible records that while the Israelites were travelling through the desert after leaving Egypt they fell into drunken orgies and idolatry. Had they picked up these sins in Egypt where there was worship of many gods, especially those to do with fertility? Not long down the path, after entering Canaan, God warned the Israelites not to partake in the worship of Asherah, the fertility goddess and Baal the fertility god. Another fertility goddess worshipped was Astarte. The people became so bad they ended up worshipping symbols of sexual organs instead of Almighty God their creator. Sadly sex became their god.
Sodom and Gomorrah and the 5 towns of the plain are another example of how bad the sexual appetites of the people had become. God destroyed these places, not with water, but fire and brimstone from heaven. Yet thousands and thousands of years later we still see disgusting images as people 'celebrate' Carnival or Mardi Gra. People are proud of what they should be ashamed of. The clear message of these parades is open rebellion against God. The pride and stubbornness of the people has blinded them to what is right and wrong.
Prayer To Remove Sex Demon Possession
(copyrighted) by Anika Virginia DeMarco
As you can imagine, sex demons are the most common among people. And yes, even Christians can have demon possession. Since sexual sin is so prevalent, this is the reason sex demons are most common.
Although not mentioned in the Bible as a sin, masturbation IS an opening to sex demons so it is strongly advised NOT to do so. Especially if you are having regular evil attacks.
This spiritual warfare prayer will cast the demon out of your life if you are being attacked by it.
Yes, the demons can attack you in your sleep and try to get you to masturbate, orgasm, or even have sex with you. If this prayer does not work immediately, then it is suggested you examine your life, repent, and seek further assistance.
But remember, NO demons will leave you unless you are in a state of righteousness and forgiveness with God. If you are in a state of sexual sin, lust, or any kind of fornication, porn watching, or masturbation, this prayer will be ineffective.
With slight changes this prayer can be altered and applied to any demon you feel is attacking you.This should be spoken aloud and it is advised to repeat the parts where you are telling it to leave and for the Holy Spirit Fire to burn the openings until you feel changes. You may even hear screaming. If so, this is very good because the demons HATE the name of Jesus! Praise God!
Prayer
Father in the name of Jesus Christ forgive me for not resisting temptation. Father forgive me for getting pleasure from this sin. Forgive me for everything that is unforgiven now. I am so sorry God. Father close those doorways and break all legal grounds that demons and spirits are using to harm me. I take authority now over all forces of evil and sexual demons harming me now and I destroy your connections to my mind, subconscious, emotions, sexual organs, dreams, past, memories, past sins, desires, eyes, will in my stomach and I destroy your connection to my want and sastisfaction and desire for pleasures now in the name of Jesus.
I cast out now all demons of incubus, succubus, Eldora, mare, demons of masturbation and I demand you to leave me now in the name of Jesus. I break now all evil connections attaching to all parts of me and I command you to leave me now and go to the pit in the name of Jesus you are powerless and harmless against me. Your assignment is broken cancelled and destroyed in the name of Jesus Christ who died for my sins.
Father please destroy all evil links to me now I have not named. Lord please unhook and remove all remaining demonic attachments to me now in the name of Jesus Christ. Father God take the holy spirit fire and burn all evil impressions, connections, implantations, and residues the evil has left behind and remove them from me now God.
God please remove all evil connections to visions, memories, images, pleasures, past experiences things I have seen or thought and burn it all now in Jesus’s name, burn in Jesus’s name, burn in Jesus’s name. Leave me now leave all parts of me go out now in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Lord burn now all evil openings connections, ties, and chords thru which this evil is coming now in the name of Jesus. Burn in Jesus’s name, Burn in Jesus’s name, Burn in Jesus’s name.
Now recite a Bible verse-make it different each time you cast out a demon. Then sing a song to Jesus and thank God for the victory.
Anika Virigina DeMarco is an author, speaker, and counselor on spiritual matters. For spiritual help, please contact her at http://www.black-magic-rescue.com/demon-possession.html
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